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Why do guys on dating apps often just first message "hey" or "hey how are you" instead of being more creative and unique? How do they think being a copycat will stand out?

13.06.2025 08:44

Why do guys on dating apps often just first message "hey" or "hey how are you" instead of being more creative and unique? How do they think being a copycat will stand out?

Because it's a standard phrase to start communication.

BTW all the girls start their messages with a similar simple greeting.

It's one of the reason why pickup trainings suck.

I can’t get any girl I want, but I can just get some not my type of girls, so I feel I’m so ugly. What should I do?

People choose a partner by sexual attractiveness in the first place.

If she is not creative in her messages, no guy would care either.

That's not an interview for a stand-up artist.

What's your wildest & weirdest fantasy?

If a hot girl pays attention to me it doesn't really matter what she says. Her attention is enough.

No country for ugly people…

Of course, farther on when you start chatting moreover dating being smart and creative will really impress, but only as a SUPPLEMENT to attractive look.

Are people who cite the 2nd Amendment honestly familiar with what it establishes?